UPDATE + A NEW RANT

So I stopped trying to get him in the mood today and surprisingly, he came to me and wanted me to take care of him so I did. And then he basically tells me that in 20 minutes I need to go to the other room so that he can sleep cause he has work the next morning and so I asked him before that, if he would make me finish and I'd help. And he just said that he was tired and that he wanted me to understand and that he'd take care of me tomorrow but he always pushes it off so I got pissed and so when I left he got upset because we were ending on bad terms but he didn't want to talk about it and this is the second night in the row where something like this has happened and I can't sleep and I'm in the mood and it just isn't fair to me but maybe I'm overreacting. Am I?