I consider cheating to not only be having sex. If he sneaks around to see and text another woman it's cheating. That's exactly what I caught him doing too. I'm almost 17 weeks pregnant and he had texts on his phone from an ex. He was asking her how her day went and calling her baby. It made me sick. We've been together 6 years but have broken up once for a couple months. During that time he was talking to this girl. Women don't treat other women with respect. She knows we live together. She knows I'm pregnant and she knows we are together! It didn't make a difference to her. She was okayy with being a side hoe. She shoulda had the respect to tell me or respect to not pursue something with a guy in a relationship and who has a baby on the way. Now that being said HE should have not even entertained her or their fling in any kind of way. HE is just as much at fault as SHE is. I hope karma is a real bit** to them both. I'm not even sure what the future holds but I'm supposed to find out what I'm having today. It's sad such a special moment has been ruined by stupidity...