Has anyone ever heard this quote?

Question

"Give him a chance to grow, but don't settle for less than a man."

What are yalls opinions on this? At what point do you give up? I want advice, tips, stories, anything.

Answer

it really depends on the situation. anything having to do with abuse= STRIKE ONE, YOUR OUT😂

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I mean honestly some men just don't ever grow the fuck up lol. Mines working on it lawd have mercy on his dumbass lol. I think at the point I give up is when you try and try and try and they say they will stop doing the same bullshit and they just don't. For me my boyfriends drug use, alcohol use, as well as laziness level is higher then any persons should be. To get him to take a shower I basically have to be a bitch, he will go for a week without showering. Which one is gross but for him it's even worse he has horrible BO and refuses to wear deodorant. Therefore he needs a shower daily but won't like a little child. His drug intake has slowed down thankfully which I'm glad. He doesn't know when to stop drinking and tries to lie about it therefore (call me a bitch for it but idc) I told him no more liquor since he doesn't know how to control himself as well as he had a medical stomach problem so after one shot he gets sick. Not only am I looking out for his well being but last time he got smashed he told me I was in a witch coven from New Orleans and all my friends wanted to kill him. Then he couldn't find his drugs so he cried and told me i stil them. Then he tried to kill himself so no alcohol for him lmfao. I baker acted him and come to find out he hid the drugs from himself 👏🏻 and we watched AHS the day before so I guess no more AHS either 😂😂 funniest worst night of both our lives. He says he will do something then never does it until I start doing it. Such as yesterday I asked him to take out the trash a week ago I am pregnant and I'm cleaning out the house we just moved into. Not only am I pregnant and cleaning the house by myself as well as doing daily things such as dishes, laundry etc... But he said he would take the trash out so i didn't have to a week later and I took it out myself then he bitched at me for doing it because the bags were heavy 😑😑😑😑. I love my man to death but I could seriously strangle him some days.

Has anyone ever heard this quote?

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