My poor husband!!!

It has been along time since i gave into my husbands sexual needs. Like along time lol i have no umph for it at all. Ig i made him wait toooo long lol he wakes me up at 4am trying to be all romantic and stuff and still no i didnt want it but gave in anyways. It lasted probably a whole 1 min. Now he is beating himself up about it and I feel as if its my fault. Maybe I should give in more often.