Well I finally got my girlfriend to see positive insight about me being pregnant. She wasn't ready but I told her before about my master plan. We are currently in a long distance relationship because it gives us time to get ourselves together before we completely commit ourselves and time to each other. In Februrary- March, we were going through some things. We even kinda went out separate ways. I felt that it was a right time to presue my master plan and I made it happen. When I told her that I was pregnant, she was really upset. She didn't know how to handle it. She was lost, confused and heart broken. It hurt me because I just wanted her to be happy for me. For the longest, (till I was like 4 months...) she kinda avoided me. She didn't want me to send her pictures, she didn't want to FaceTime, and our conversations on the phone were dryer than all purpose flour. We eventually had a talk about the situation. I found out that she thought that I was going to abandon her. She thought that when my baby got here, it wasn't going to be no more us. I had to reassure her that we were always going to be together no matter what. She told me she wanted to be happy for me and be there for the baby but she didn't want to feel left out. I could understand where she was coming from because she been throwing it before in a previous relationship but I really love my girlfriend and I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world. After I had prove to her that she will always be by my side no matter what happens, she finally gained positivity about my pregnancy. I was able to tell her the gender, what I was going to name the baby and the due date. It felt so good to have that conversation with her. I can feel her excitement every time we talk. I didn't know what I was going to do without my girlfriend because I needed her support the most. I am proud to say that my baby will have 2 moms. 👩‍👩‍👧👩‍❤️‍👩👭🌈