So.. we were planning on telling our whole families this weekend that I am pregnant! I asked my mom a week ago if my husband and I can come hang out with them on Labor day weekend. We had the ultrasound yesterday so I called her and asked if we can do brunch on Sunday. My mother is depressed and has a personality disorder. She very quickly made the conversation negative and does not want to see anyone. I was going to tell her and her husband first. We are still planning on going to dinner with my husbands family Sunday night and keeping all of our other plans. It makes me sad that she only sees people when it is convenient for her. What should I do? My current plan is just to call her Sunday morning... if she will even answer.

She is the only family member whose face I will not get to see when I tell them. What would you do?