"Just relax & let it happen"

SHUT UP. 😂 sorry but im not going to "not think about it" or "stop worrying" ive been trying for 3 years with a miscarriage every cycle is like a marathon trying to make it to the finish. im tired of hearing success stories of the people "just forgetting it or giving up & it happening" im not trying to be rude i just need some positivity. anyone have success stories of bfp even though they were trying as hard as they could? & not being "relaxed"