Would you leave him?

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If you knew your man wouldn't cheat on you, is very open with passwords,  never late from work, always home, sex life active/good etc but you also knew he liked watching porn like if you left for a few hours he may jack off to porn. Would this phase you or would you leave him? Like is this normal for guys to do? Can a man be faithful and in an exclusive relationship and still watch it? He's so good to me....

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The man is allowed to touch himself. It's his body.

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Porn isn't an issue to me. I don't watch it because I have a good imagination but I pleasure myself regularly.  To me porn is for those who can't go inside their heads and think of scenarios for self pleasure.  I don't fault them for it.

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He sounds great!

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Yes. Why the hell would you worry about a fantasy? How is it any different than you getting aroused watching magic mike and jumping him? It's not real and he knows it. His sex drive is just higher than yours.

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For me, porn isn't cheating.  However everyone has their own standards.  I watch porn, my boyfriend watches porn.  I am very loyal to him, have never cheater or  even thought about it.   It is definitely possible to be in a loyal relationship while watching porn on the occasion.  My take on it, is that as long as it doesn't affect our sex life, I'm fine with it.

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Yesterday, my boyfriend texted me to come over, so about 15 minutes later I walked in on my boyfriend passed out, dick out, and phone in hand😂 I said OH MY very loud and woke him up...I was laughing so hard and he was a little embarrassed. Every guy jacks off, and I have no problem with porn. Even if your SO doesn't watch it, believe it or not, he isn't thinking about you and only you everything he pleasures himself. Let it be.

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Porn is fine. He's not cheating. So he has a higher sex drive than you. Be thankful this is how he takes care of it.

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I would absolutely not leave him. Sounds like the perfect guy right there 😂 it's normal for men to watch porn, and I'd rather him get off by watching porn instead of having another woman in bed while I'm not there.

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It wouldn't really bother me. I wouldn't mind if my husband wanted to watch porn and we have watched it together in the past (only very occaisionally) but what would concern me is if this has just changed. I know my husband used to watch porn before we met, since we've been together he says he has no need to watch it alone cus our sex life is good. If he suddenly started watching it again I would want to know if there was an issue with our sex life.

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Everyone feels differently. I trust my fiancé fully (much like you described) and I know he watches porn, I have no issue! He is an amazing man in every way. We have a great sex life and it never interferes. Sometimes when I'm too exhausted from a long day at work or have my period I know he's in the basement doing it and I'll walk past doing laundry and giggle. We've been together 9 years, living together 3 and its never bothered me. He doesn't do it often and like I said it doesn't affect our sex life so I see no reason to be bothered by it! It's up to you to decide! I personally would never leave an amazing man over porn unless he was addicted and it interfered with your intimate life.

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