Don't you hate when hubbies do this ?

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We are in love and I have a almost 2 month adorable baby and I stay home ever since . He works and now is doing 2 jobs . So I'm ok. At work he looks at his phone and Facebook and me I don't even have an account anymore and I just be a good old fashioned wife where I just stay home and I know communicate with family and obviously enjoy with  my baby but when coming home from work why do men still have to stare at Facebook and. Not talk to there wives like technology just took over all men I mean I don't say Anything cause I don't want to be mean to him cause Somtime when I'm taking he is constant on Facebook and tv is on then also same thing I mean he takes cares about us all that I just wish and miss when we would talk or Atleast men would focus on there wives because we do so much for them it's not easy

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We have a no phones at the table rule and no TV so we can spend that quality time together and we also chat in bed before we fall asleep

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My boyfriend and I deleted all of our social media. It was pro baby the best thing because we actually have deep talks, we communicate on a daily basis. You should talk to your hubby about how you feel.

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I had the same issue with my husband! It was horrible, because all i wanted was his 100% attention for a bit. Especially since i miss him when he's gone at work, and then he'd come home and just be on the phone or TV.
But i finally talked to him. He got upset, because he felt i was too demanding and taking all his free time, but shortly after he realized my point. He truly makes an effort now to spend more couple time with me. 
Maybe suggest going for a walk or watching a movie, so he doesnt feel the need to be on the phone. My husband needs more simulation than a conversation, so walking or doing a puzzle helps him focus on us (if that makes sense). 
I also saw an awesome idea from a lady on here (i unfortunately cant remember her name) but she has a rule where she puts all electronics away two hours before bed. 
Honestly, you just need to talk to him. My husband didn't realize it bothered me until i said something. 
Communication is key!

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Talk to him about it. He's your husband, you should be able to talk to him about anything!

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If you have a problem with it you need to talk to him about it, a relationship is built on open communication. If you feel like you can't even tell him how you feel what is the point of being together?

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Thanks so much everyone for your advice

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My Mister doesn't have Facebook, and we're both glad. He works on the computer for his job, so as soon as he's off work he doesn't want to even touch a computer or TV. :)

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My husband and I watch tv and talk while we have dinner, then we have an hour or two of just do whatever time-separate if he wants to play his video games or do something in the garage or we'll play monopoly or something silly like that. Then we have a couple hours in bed to watch our recorded shows together where we have no phones and just cuddle. Find something that works for you..maybe he doesn't realize how disconnected he is from his surroundings and you. Definitely speak up (in a nice way of course).

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We don't have social media. We don't need it.

Don't you hate when hubbies do this ?

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