Breakup or makeup?
So, my fiancé and I were friends with this girl a few months back. She cut us both off and was a real bitch to me. My fiancé started talking to her again and he asked if it was okay. I said that I was fine with them messaging etc. (She's a lesbian so I wasn't about him cheating). Anyway a few days later he asked to meet with her...I said okay for a few hours. I still hated her and hasn't forgiven her for how she'd been so I think me being so chill with them meeting was more than fair. So they went out at 6:00pm and didn't get back until 1:00am!!!! What the fuck!!!! I mean baby steps man? He knew I hated her and he knew how hard it was for me to see him and the girl I hate being best mates? 1:00am? How am I supposed to feel?!
So we argued over this and in the end I forgave him. I said that j didn't mind them seeing each other but I just felt that 7 hours is a bit long, especially in the beginning, maybe in time I can get on with her again? He agreed and said he'd let me know when he saw her again and it wouldn't be for long. All is good.
Yesterday I phoned him and he told me that the day BEFORE he saw this girl again! So I asked him why he didn't tell me that day? He garbled lame excuses as to why he didn't tell me. So obviously I got a little upset and we're talking a 5/10 upset...so not really. He hung up and today he text me saying that I either see him today it we are over??? He was really controlling about it telling me that he dhould be the most important thing in my life and that I should drop all my plans or he'll end it?!
So I got mad (obviously) and he didn't even care that he'd hurt me? I'm seeing him tomorrow. Should I just end this relationship? Please help me!
Btw sorry for the para!
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