boyfriend drinking at college

Hi! So my bf moves into to a frat house tomorrow. We are both the same age but i am at community college and live at home and work weeknights. I have a horriible feellig in my gut about where hes lliving cause all i keep hearing from him is the parties/alcohol. I am an ocassional drinker but never get drunk. He on the other hand always gets drunk. He knows how i feel and respects me but the parties havent started yet and i am already having a hard time with this. I'm not worried about him drinking and cheating cause hes smart in that sense. I just don't like the drunk calls/texts or anything like that. I know this is part of college but he always overdoes this. I just need help because i am upset and all about my personal life (parents divorce) and my bf is having the time of his life. We are long distance also!! Please help me figure out what to say to him because ive been thinking that he should be with someone who is like his personality and i should be more with someone who works instead like my personality. What do i do?