This TWW sucks balls!!

So why the hell is it called the two week wait?? As in 14 days?? I swear everyone on here gets their BFP's at 8-10 dpo. Why isn't it called the one week wait or the 10 day wait???? I'm sitting over here at 10dpo with a BFN thinking I'm out and there's no hope for this cycle cuz every time I get on glow someone has a positive test like "omg I'm only 6 dpo and I'm in total shock, like I wasn't even trying!"  And I'm over here like shut the F up! I can't even get pregnant when I try really hard I for sure can't if i don't try! Ugh it just eats my ass up every time! Guess I need a little pick me up, I'm 10 dpo today and all negatives...