We can't control it!

When will some women stop saying comments like "at least you're pregnant, some women would kill to be in your shoes" I've seen someone post about her being sad her baby was a boy instead of a girl and she continuously got attacked and called selfish & ungrateful! When nobody had even read the fact that she was sad because she had bought ALL girl stuff & painted the nursery already and then got told at 30 something weeks that it was a boy! But even then gender disappointment is real! Pregnancy blues are real! Hormones are real! There is no right or wrong way to feel during pregnancy! Feeling sad & depressed even WHILE pregnant is real! It's ridiculous that on a <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.nurture">PREGNANCY app</a> girls have to hold their tongues because others don't appreciate them expressing their true feelings and justifying them as being ungrateful! It is extremely sad that some women have to go through life without having the chance of getting pregnant. Nobody would wish that on anyone else. But what I don't get is that those women PURPOSELY read stories, opinions, rants that they know will set them off and instead of brushing it off and knowing that it isn't their fault they have to state their opinion to the poor expectant mother that basically she should shut up and be happy all the time because she's pregnant. It's horrible! Im pregnant with my first and I'm so grateful and I know that, WE ALL KNOW that but that does not mean i don't get to rant sometimes & express my true feelings. Pretty sure if I wrote "I love being pregnant it's the best feeling in the world!" Someone would comment "you shouldn't say that because some women can't get pregnant and reading stuff like that makes them feel sad" WE CAN NEVER WIN! Stop attacking random girls for something they cannot(!) control