Vag probs

I know it's personal but I don't want to feel like the only one , have any of you wonderful ladies have milky discharge and when you check down there to make sure all is good , you see a few white specs in your cooch ... I feel disgusting and going to talk to the doc about it but I feel embarrassed and disgusted with myself and don't know how to tell the hub to wait outside for that part ... Please help , sending a serious s.o.s.