Has anyone decided to not have visitors at the hospital after having your baby? I recently had to spend a night in the hospital and it was not a fun experience and it really made me wonder if I would rather have family over to our house at some point after the baby is born instead of at the hospital. I really want our hospital stay to be as calm and stress free as possible but I'm not sure how our family (especially my MIL) will feel if we tell everyone we don't want visitors. Am I being selfish? I'm also not sure it would be a good idea to tell some people they can come but not others..