when your having another daughter :/ and people

I have a 4 year old and we're having another in November super excited 😬💕....but then everyone tells you that having a sister is the greatest thing ever and they'll be best friends...but I Unfortnalty had to make the decision to cut mine out of my life for good 😞 and not a lot of people know I even have one :/. I Had to kick her out of my wedding that's next year too.....32 weeks pregnant just thinking and being all emotional right now lol 😕😕😕