can someone just listen?

I just don't understand how men can be so completely blind. I mean I hand him dinner and he eats while I chase the baby and play with her because she won't sit in her high chair or playpen. He then (knowing that I haven't eaten) makes himself some Oreos and milk. Criticizes me for not grabbing milk at the store. And doesn't offer to hold or play with the baby. Dinner was done an hour ago and I'm still struggling with her. It's like this every day. I'm feeling less in love and more like I hate being around him because the only person he cares about is himself. I work 1 day every 2 weeks and he watches her that day but he hates it. Is supposed to be his day off and he doesn't consider it a day off because watching our CHILD is a chore. Asking him to help me with anything is like I've asked him for a kidney.