What does this mean to you?

Should your partner have to try to restrain himself from flirting? Does the fact that your boyfriend has to try and not flirt bother you at all?

For me personally, if you are emotionally committeed, I don't believe trying would even be an issue, he just wouldn't do it without second guessing himself. If your partner has to stop and think "Should I hit on her?" Then wouldn't that mean his not competent invested emotionally yet?

Help, I need opinions.

I don't understand the difference between hitting on someone and flirting. Maybe it's because my boyfriend has always been sexually flirtatious with other woman. We've been off and on for 3 years