Ladies please STOP looking for validation

Adriannah • Married Mom of 3-expecting 4th April 2019
I have lost count to how many times we as women have come on GLOW seeking validation from women, we have NEVER met and will NEVER meet, when we have issues with our spouses. 
If your spouse is cheating on you or (sex)teing another woman, do not come on GLOW looking for a response or validation. These women do not know you, your spouse, or your circumstances...all they know is what you tell them and that is just a small glimpse into your reality. 
I am not bashing anyone who does post because I too am guilty however, it took me to post just once to realize that 90% of the responses I received convinced me to leave my spouse. The other 10% gave sound and genuine advice . We are WOMEN, we have a female intuition. Go with your gut. If it doesnt feel right to you, then YOU do something about it for YOU. 
But dont always be quick to seek advice from women you have never met.
 And remember some of these women are going through exactly what you are going through or has gone through it...doesnt mean their advice is coming from a good place rather coming from a scorned place. Be cautious...you know your husband, relationship, and feelings better than any of us do.
Lastly, if you are that woman, dealing with a unfaithful SO or just trumoil in your relationship...pray. Ask GOD for guidance because people generally cheat when something is lacking in a marriage. Dont always be quick to blame. Ask GOD to reveal things that your eyes cant see & your ears cant hear. No one person is perfect. Every man and woman has a vice...
With much ❤️...