Telling your parents

Jessica
I am trying to find the right time to finally tell my parents that I am pregnant.  I have not told them yet due to them believing that I am "living in sin." ( Live with my bf together for 3 years) And the fact that when I miscarried before my mother told me she was relieved, makes it very hard to tell them.  I know they will be excited down the road (being religious they believe every baby is a blessing and I agree!) but getting over the hump of the lectures and disappointment is what is holding me back. I am currently 12+1, and I guess I'm just looking for advice and stories from mothers-to-be or now mothers.....