This is my second pregnancy and I am hoping that everything goes well and I am able to do a VBAC this go around. I work with all women who have almost all had at least one child. One of the ladies I work with didn't know that they have you the option to try for a VBAC so I explained to her what it was. She told me if she had the option to skip "Real labor" she would take it in a heart beat. Then informed me that actual labor was extremely tough and I would later bleed for 6 weeks and need to wear adult diapers. Also that it is nearly impossible to care for your newborn since the pain afterwords is so awful. I wouldn't say that I was offended exactly, but my feelings were hurt for sure. I am very proud of what I went though to get my daughter here safely and I absolutely don't think I took the easy way out!