So my husband is on deployment, and I am almost 20 weeks. Today I used a pleasure toy for the first time since he left, and shorty after I started bleeding which I heard was normal after sex. (Technically wasn't really sex lol) but it's been many hours since then and I'm still bleeding. And I also havent felt the baby move or kick at all. Usually around 9 at night I feel the baby going crazy... It's ten thirty now and I haven't felt a thing since doing what I did... Should I be worried?

Again don't judge me. My husband is gone and I'm extremely "hormonal" since he's been gone. I wouldn't ask but like I said I'm a first time mom and I just need someone to ease my worries. If you are going to be rude don't bother saying anything. Thank you.

..... No body is really easing my mind here............ I just wanted someone to tell me it's normal.....

I did the cold drink thing and the baby is moving like crazy now. THANK YOU:)