Today im planning on breaking up with my bf. Things have gone south for awhile, ever since he betrayed my trust by throwing the fact I was abused at one point in my face during an argument. I've tried to forgive and forget as he's apologized but I just can't seem to. He broke my trust and I just don't love him the same anymore. Not to mention some of the other problems in our relationship are becoming even more prominent. He's selfish, doesn't seem to listen to what I say, doesn't take my feelings into consideration, and continues to do things I ask him not to. Like if I tell him to stop playing around, he'll continue to do it. (Like he bruised my wrist recently from playing too much. And even though he apologized, he really didn't seem to care and quickly turned it around to be about him and how he wasn't feeling well.) We've tried to talk things out, it doesn't seem to be helping because he'll say "Ok" and "I'm sorry" but then he'll do it again! I want to break up, but on the other hand, he wasn't always like this and it makes me sad that I'm leaving him. I know why I have to do this, but I need to know if what I'm doing is right!