ANAL?? help!! *TMI*

Question

Me and my husband want to try anal, but I'm more nervous about it and he's definitely not. The farthest he has got is a finger, and I actually liked it and he definitely did. What are things I can do to get use to it? Maybe a toy for awhile? What's you're experience?? Anything helps!!

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Lots and lots and lots of lube. There are toys out there that are small that can help work you up to it. Also use them on him. He might find a lot of pleasure out of it and help understand what you are also experiencing. It took me several months of butt play before I was ready for anal. Even then I still take it very slowly

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Slow and steady wins the race...and lube. Lol

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Don't panic and have him pull straight back out because that's when it really hurts.. Let him sit in you for a few seconds just so you can adjust before he sarts to get going.. If you think you have used enough lube use more! Stay relaxed and I suggest the spooning position for your first time it was the first way I tried that felt comfortable and also enjoyable, it's really not that bad, can take some getting used too but once you are used to it and comfortable it can feel great!

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Get lube designed for anal. I recommend H20 anal lube. Have him use his finger first to make it easier. Make sure you're relaxed. And when he starts to enter you, make sure he goes slow. My boyfriend would go really slow and watch my face as he was entering me to make sure I wasn't uncomfortable and kept asking if I was okay. If I was in pain he'd stop until I gave him the okay to keep going. We first did anal about a year ago exactly. Now we're pros and do it all the time lol. It's really fun once you get used to it, some times I prefer anal over regular sex.

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Lots of lube the wettest lube you can find and you must be in control of him entering you guide him in with your hand bit by bit, if you feel pain or tense up just hold him there and take some breaths to calm an relax it as much as possible then guide him in more until he is in then take it very slowly and not to deep

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Just relax and get lots of lube. I got mine from Walmart :) also make sure he goes super slow and when he gets it in don't let him pull it out till you guys are finished because that hurts so bad. But before any of this make sure you are super turned on because it helps. And I know it sounds weird but when he's going in push out like you are pooping. I read that somewhere and it worked for me. Don't psych yourself out. It actually feels really nice if you are doing it right :) good luck!

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You will get an Ass tulip....

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Happy hiney anal lube! Numbs you up just enough so it doesn't hurt.

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Lube and start with one finger then 2 for a few days then try 3. If you can comfortably fit 3 in there anal won't hurt so much. I did this for about 4 days before my S/O came home from military and when he got home we tried anal and I actually really enjoyed it.

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Defiantly start with a small dildo and lube while having sex

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