infertility brings out the worst in everyone...

My husband and I got into a little spat tonight and he said that it's not fair that I can't even give him a baby like he's always wanted... Until now he had never spoken about this bothering him. Idk what to do. We have been struggling with infertility for years now. We just started looking into adoption but now I'm crushed... Has anyone ever dealt with a situation like this?😭💔