My boyfriend of over a year started chewing again yesterday. Before that he hadn't chewed for about 2 or 3 months.

I didn't know he chewed until about 4 months into our relationship.. He hid it because he said he knew i wouldn't like it.i wasn't going to break up with him for.

Anyway, I was so happy that he stopped but when i found snus in his backpack this morning, i felt like it was sneaky. He wouldn't have told me if i didn't find it( he admitted) and i had just congratulated him on his progress.

It's almost like, what else would he hide? We've been talking about marriage for the last month and I was looking at venues last night.. I'm so angry and i feel hurt. Am i crazy?

This more so is me wondering if i should be worried about him being sneaky/hiding stuff? Is this a red flag?