Venting, it's long so get some snacks
Long story short, things between hubby and I have been rocky this year. It we are working it out. Anyways, about a week ago I happened to walk in on him while he was on the computer and we started just talking about our day. I asked him what he was filling out of the computer ,because he seemed distracted during our convo, and he said that he was filling out a loan application. I asked him for what and he said "Oh it's for my sister.She wants to know if I can consign for her." ✋🏽 1. His sister asked him for a loan and didn't think to say "you should talk it over with Kim first." (I was annoyed at that but I let it go) 2. HE didn't think to talk it over with me 3. Because I know my husband is not an idiot I'm almost 90% sure that he just didn't care to tell me and proceeded to fill out the application. I told him that I was upset over that fact that he's making these choices without discussing them over with me. Call me crazy but a marriage is a partnership right... Anyways we talked it over, he said he understood what bothered me and said he'd work on not doing it again.
Fast forward to today, we were cleaning our balcony and he just started decided what would stay and what would go. I'm over here thinking "WTF can you ask for my opinion on this?" I told him he was trying to do the whole executive decision making again and we got into it. The whole day went by and I approached him explaining why I was upset and what hurts is that he said "Well I'm sorry but it probably won't be the last time it'll happen." Like, wth?! Can he not understand that I want to be include or at least thought of when he thinks of making a choice that has to do with me? And I can't help but think, have I turned into some type of b*tch that he thinks can be controlled? The thought of it gives me chills and idk how else I should communicate with him.
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