How do you ladies do it? I'm really anxious and not in a good way. It's like I'm scared to get a BFN. Hubby and I never really discuss getting pregnant it's just something we both know we're not avoiding. Last night I asked him if I should lose some weight. Lol I'm kind of a fitness junkie. He said no because soon I'll have to gain weight for our baby and he rubbed my stomach. Although it was a beautiful gesture. It just made me nervous and sad. What if I don't get pregnant. I don't know. I don't want to stress myself. But how do ya do this every month?