Do you think this was disrespectful?!

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My babys father had the nerve to ask for a damn DNA! I'm 5 months pregnant. He knows this is his baby we had sex for a year with out protection & he even remember the night of conception. I feel like asking me for a DNA was disrespectful asf! Am I bitching? Like do y'all know where I'm coming from? Then he said "I know it's my baby but I wanna make sure" that doesn't even make sense!

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I'd give it to him just like this

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Maybe wait until baby is born and see if he still asks. I notice a lot of babies seem to resemble dad more than mum. He might then feel silly to go through with it.

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I'm going through the same thing my baby father want a dna test he know it's his but he want to make sure I don't understand but imma give him one he just got to pay for it

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Eh I don't think it's that big of a deal. My husband was told by a girl years before we met that she was pregnant and it was his. Only found out it wasn't after the baby was born because the baby was obviously mixed and they were both white. He was nervous about going through that again. I told him if he wanted one when we had our son it was fine. He said no but I wouldn't have been mad if he said yes.

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My husband  would joke around saying he would do a paternity  test. This was all prior to being pregnant.  I told him one time, its fun and games now, but dont ever say that while I'm pregnant. Your nicely calling me a whore. And if thats how you feel about me, then No the baby isnt yours.. goodbye.  So far he has behaved  :)

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Mine did the same exact thing I sat there like okay let's do it then let's get the DNA and he went silent and stopped asking

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The father of my baby has also made a comment like that but he's an idiot if he would actually think I cheated and got pregnant by another man.

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My bf wants one too. I told him go ahead but your paying for it. It's insulting!

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If he really wants one, do it but he should pay for it since he's the one asking.

You can ask him things that might be invasive/insulting but you really want to know too then I.e. His full financial disclosure,

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Depends i mean if there was any unfaithfulness and hes unsure i could understand but if you never gave him a reason to distrust you then yeah its ridiculous! My husband used to say that to me but as a joke because i hung out with a guy friend alot and he gets jelous. My son is my husbands identical twin so now the only question i get is hes definitely your husbands not sure if hes yours😒lol dumb!

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