Bump or bloat

I've noticed a lot of women under 12 weeks asking "bump or bloat" then when you say bloat get angry....isn't the baby tucked under the pelvic bone for weeks or am I wrong? I know that some second time or however many time mums do show faster as their muscles remember. As far as I'm concerned I'm 11weeks and I'm bloat because the baby is low. I know this so I don't ask. We are all hormonal but don't ask if you will get angry. Wishing everyone a happy pregnancy ❤