My partner is really irritating me

I don't know why this is happening but since we had our daughter everything he does pisses me off my.

He is away during the week and only home weekends (started last week) but this weekend I have just felt like it was easier while he was away.

I do everything for our daughter and if I ask him to do something he gets really shitty with me and moans about it like changing nappies etc. It drives me mad.

Saturday i went to watch him play rugby, he has to be there an hour and a half before the game so I dropped him off and went shopping only to find he hadn't put the clips for the car seat in the car so I couldn't use her push chair. Ended up going home to get them but couldn't find them anywhere! I ended up carrying her all day. Got home and he had left them on the wall outside the house. That's the only thing he had to do before we left (for her) and he couldn't even do that.

I sometimes think what does he actually do for us he isn't here all week and then comes home and just complains about the house being a mess and plays rugby.

He comes home Thursday night so he can go to rugby training, not to see me or his daughter.

I hate feeling this way, we were so in love before we had her and had a great sex life, now when he tries to initiate sex I could punch him like I don't have enough to do!

When I have tried to talk to him about helping with our daughter more he just has a go at me like I am expecting too much. It's always I did the last nappy. I try to remind him I do it all week and he just says don't be that person!

I should look forward to him coming home but at the moment I don't because it feels like he doesn't help with anything :(