my boyfriends father......long rant 😬

cat • mama to 3!
Oh my god. I wouldn't consider myself a germaphobe but hygiene is important to me. I cannot stand it when people don't wash their hands. It makes me cringe SOOO bad. So yeah, my boyfriends father is a nightmare. This man. I get it, he's 74 years old, this is TMI but I excuse the fact he cannot aim in the bathroom worth shit so I constantly have to wipe the toilet seat and be very cautious of where I step, but it's no excuse not to wash your hands!! Omg. Literally, he will go to the bathroom and in 2 seconds walk out and I just think "...I didn't hear the any water running from the sink" then he will go to the freezer and stick his hands in the ice machine!!!! I die a little bit inside. I am constantly washing my hands in this house. I hate touching surfaces i know he has touched like the fridge door, door knobs and light switches. My boyfriends mother nags at him but he's always like "why u gotta pick on me" CAUSE ITS GROSS!!!! 😬 No one wants your germs!! Whenever he coughs, he never covers his mouth which drives my boyfriend insane lol. I am going to have a baby here next week and It's nerve wracking for me. He currently has a terrible cough to the point it's hard for him to even talk without coughing. I already told my boyfriend that if it isn't gone, he will not be allowed in the hospital. Plus even if he wasn't sick, I'd really prefer for him not to hold her at all. I do not take my baby's health lightly. Please let these next 6 months fly by when we will have a our own place🙏🏼🙂 but in all honesty, I feel awful that I'm really not a fan of him because my boyfriend cares about him so deeply. He always told me that it would upset that he never felt like his dad would ever witness him become a father because he is 74 and my boyfriend is 20. Even though I got pregnant on accident, he was happy knowing that his dad would atleast be able to see his granddaughter be born. He is a nice man but very rough around the edges. And my boyfriend is well aware, they have had their fall outs too but that is his dad and he loves him unconditionally