Would you be mad if your partner lied about jacking off?

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The question is LYING about doing it when asked.. NOT if you think porn or jacking off is wrong.

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I wouldn't put my husband in a position where he felt he had to lie about masturbating.

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It's their body, they are not obligated to inform me of what they're doing with it at any given time. Has anyone thought to consider that it might be a bit embarrassing to just be asked about that? I wouldn't really want to discuss it in most situations, so yeah, I'd probably tell a white lie to avoid the talk too.
Being in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that they owe you information about every part of their personal lives.

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I think it's none of my business. If we had a casual conversation and he was willing to tell me fine , but other than that it's his body. As long as it doesn't get in the way of our sexual life. I wouldn't want my partner pressuring me to confess if I have masturbated.

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As everyone else is saying, it's completely their decision and maybe being brought up on it embarrasses them so they lie?? I know if I caught my husband off guard he'd lie out of embarrassment and say he was scratching his leg or something 😂😂

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It would depend for me..that is a stupid thing to lie about but the only reason I'd be real mad was if we didn't have sex for a few days and then I had to ask him a few times in order for him to admit it..
I'd just have that thought in the back of my mind, 'if he lies about something like that..what else does or would he lie about?'

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I know this is not directed towards porn but my friend and her SO are having issues because he lies about jacking off. He prefers to watch porn and jack off more than having sex. This is something he did not tell her in the beginning so they had a great sex life. Now 3 years later they have sex maybe 1 every 2 weeks and he chooses to jack off to porn instead and she is really offended by it. So I would say yes in some situations it could upset someone but just for normal purposes with a healthy sex life then not at all. My hubs can do that whenever he pleases as long as he is ready to go the distance with me when we want lol.

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No, because who cares? I don't care about him jacking off anyway.

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He obviously felt ashamed or knew you would be mad for some odd reason. It's his dick, so why can't he touch it himself? Makes no sense to me.

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It's HIS dick. Maybe he just didn't feel comfortable telling me he got off.

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I wouldn't be mad that he did it but I'd be mad that he lied about something so stupid because if you can lie about something so small what else are you lying about? But it also depends why he felt like he had to lie. No husband/boyfriend should feel like they have to lie about masturbating to his wife/girlfriend that's just stupid.

Would you be mad if your partner lied about jacking off?

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