Sex after baby

Savannah • With my best friend since 9/4/12💕 Mommy to Eli since 7/1/16
Okay so I'm 3 months pp and my SO and I still can't have sex. I bleed and it hurts bad every single time 😕 also since baby has been here, the lady bits just don't smell the same.... how long did it take things to regulate after baby for you?