I feel bad and I know it is normal, but I have serious biases toward my own mother than my boyfriends'. She says that she's that she's my future MIL and acts like that has any bearing over anything... and I know she really likes me, I like her as well! But I feel like my mom will do the same things that she does, and I can stand it more or it won't even bother me. For example, tomorrow my mom said she's going to be at the hospital early and just hang out and I said that's fine, but my boyfriends mother told him she's coming to the hospital a few afters we do just to wait and it kinda bothered me for some reason. It sucks!! I don't want to feel this way but I constantly put my mom above her like  I want my daughter to be more involved with my mom than her. It's not fair but I feel like I'm always justifying it by saying "oh well IM the mom.. and she's MY mom.." i know if my boyfriend was like that toward my mom, it'd upset me a lot. I think it's cause I'm just protective of my mom 😕😕