is he in the wrong?

Question

My boyfriend was looking through my phone, which is okay, since I made some really bad choices in the past and now he needs to build up his trust for me, so once in a while he'll grab my phone and look through it. Perfectly fine. I think it's a great way for him to see that I'm not as immature as I was in the past. 
Right now he was looking at my messages, a group chat with my two gay best friends. 
All we talk about is typical things, school, people, music, celebrities, etc. typical teen stuff. What else can I talk about with two gay guys, what can I hide? 
I bought my boyfriend's anniversary gift last night, two little star wars figures, and I sent it to the group chat, and told my besties about them. 
My boyfriend was scrolling up through the convo and I said "Wait, stop." And I told him not to go up, that I had sent them a picture of his anniversary gift and I didn't want him to see. 
I grabbed my phone and deleted the convo. 
He got mad and said that I'm probably trying to hide something. If I wasn't hiding anything that I wouldn't have done that and I would've found a way to let him see without spoiling the present. 
His dad came to pick him up and he didn't even hug me or anything he just left. 
I explained it to him and he won't listen. 
Am I in the wrong? I know he hasn't gained back all his trust in me and I should be respectful of that but how am I supposed to  just let him see his anniversary gift?

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I would send him a picture of the present, with text R u happy now?! you ruined my surprise gift to you.
And then I would ignore his texts and phone calls.
That's what would I do

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No. That relationship won't last like that I'm sorry to say. Been there and done that (I was cheated on). If he took you back he accepted what you did and needs to leave it in the past and start over. If he can't do that in my opinion it's best to walk away. With out trust there is nothing. You were doing something sweet for him.

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Should've deleted just the picture from the messages and left the rest for him to read. Could've been avoided imo.

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Dpending on what you did in the past he may be like that for a bit.  Talk to him, if yall are going to stay in this relationship he needs to try to trust you agin, youve given him full access to your phone, and already explained about the anniversary gift having been discussed. The only way it couldve gone better was if you stopped him, told him that the texts going past that point were about his anniversary gift and you didnt want him to see as itd ruin the suprise, and then told him that could read past or hand you the phone.  I get you hurt him but making you go thriugh controling behavior to earn his trust back is a bit excessive, you two may need to go to counseling they can sugguest better trust rebuilding exercises.

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Where's the TRUST?

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Girrrrrrl it is your phone, you're being super generous by letting him see anything. You have every right to not let him see something on your phone. He's acting unreasonable and that's not right

is he in the wrong?

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