am I in labor or not ?

SciAsia
5:41 am havin back painsss feel like my period ! 😩 water didn't break went to doc was checked and 3 Cms & 80% effaced ! Stomach keeps tighten all night Nd day after my cervical check ! Which they say is a contraction ! Am I in labor or nooooo? 😩 37wks & 1 day !!! Btw & baby been havin my pelvic area hurting for the last cpl weeks ! 😩 I just don't wanna go to the hospital & be sent home ... any tips?Â