Anal Advice ?

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My husband wants to do anal tonight & I'm not a fan only done it a few times for a few seconds & it's been terrible every time. How do you prepare yourself for anal and how do you enjoy it ? I don't like it but he enjoys it so I'm doing it to make him happy. Any advice ?

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You shouldn't do it to make him happy. If he knows you don't enjoy it, it's rude of him to even ask or try! Tell him no!

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Hmmm, what if you suggest putting vibrating toy in his anal to make you happy?!
 If you don't enjoy it don't do it, and it will make your anal muscles loose.

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Wine snd lots lots lots on lube (don't use water based)  and clit rubbing for me

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I think you either like anal or don't. I don't know why you would do it if you don't like it. I used to be a big fan of anal but I was usually drunk.

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I've never tried, My SO has "accidentally" and probably didn't even go 1mm and that was painful enough until the next day!! I've only heard horror stories from friends apart from one.. Sorry if this is TMI lol but the guy got her so turned on using oral and his fingers that the next thing you know he had slipped it in & that was her first time!!! She said it was so good she was able to orgasm from it but would never try with anyone else unless they were as experienced as he obviously was, I think you have to be extremely relaxed and probably work your way up from fingers to toys then the real deal.. And lots of lube!

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Well my routine is obviously a shower, I do an enema you know to make sure I don't get any surprises. And that way I'm able to actually enjoy it. Then lots of lube and your spouse can play with it first like introduced a finger. It relaxes your muscles down there . When he is about to enter ...you have to push kinda like your gonna take a poo ...I know weird but that way I promise It won't hurt and enjoy :)

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I love anal, and if you want to, do it if not don't. But lube, toys play and patience is huge. He can't just slam it in there, it needs to be teased  a lot first. My hubby needs to be in a certain mood to be that patient.

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I always make sure I go to the toilet before anal just in case lol! Lots of lube I always find that being on top as it goes in doesn't hurt as bad.. once it doesn't hurt I can do any position. Also clit rubbing makes the pain go away for me!

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