drives me crazy 🙄

It really drives me crazy when I come on here and women are venting about having marriage problems or are having a fight with their SO and the first response from people are usually "divorce him" or "break up with him". When did we all become so lazy? I think it's okay to vent on here but to tell someone they should get a divorce?? That's a serious thing and takes a very big emotional toll on most people. Divorce or breaking up with someone is not the answer always. Unless that other person is abusive in some way or if there's a real reason for one. I know I've only been married for a short while and maybe I don't have a lot of room to have an opinion here but after seeing my mother go through three divorces I can't understand why that's always the first resort. Why not just work out your problems and communicate??