Is it just me? Annoying boyfriend?

Question

My boyfriend is away at college, so we are doing long distance (this is our second year doing it, so its nothing we arent used to).

My issue is that I always feel like I'm in the way. I try not to text him unless he texts me (although I always text him "good morning" or a random "i love you" during the day), and I only ask him to Skype once or twice during the week. Whenever we are Skyping, anytime he says "oh my friends want me to play a videogame" or "i think i want to go to the gym", I let him do it... even if we only Skyped for 30 minutes. I never want to be in the way of him living and doing what he has to do, especially when it comes to schoolwork and even playing videogames with his friends.

Am I wrong for always letting him go? I always want to Skype him and feel sad when I let him leave early, but I don't want to force him to talk to me if he doesn't want to. I've talked to him about how I wish we could Skype longer but I know he has important things to do, and he's always just said "its okay".

I guess its all my fault... hes done NOTHING  wrong. Or am I a really good girlfriend for putting him and his wants/needs before my own all of the time?

Answer

As much as you love him, it does sound like he's not completely invested. A man will do what a man wants to do, and if he's more interested in going to the gym or playing video games rather than having a conversation with his girlfriend for longer than 30 minutes then you should probably move on. Someone who is invested would make the time regardless of the situation, it's nothing you should take personally, he just seems to be more interested in living the college life rather than being settled.

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Theres give and take in every relationship. I think its extremely good for you to give him his space and time with friends. But he also should give a little every once and a while. Ask him if once he could not go play with his friends and see if he could skype longer. You seem to give a lot to him so maybe he could do the same. You should definitely talk with him and tell him how your feeling!

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Relate much to this, 
My boyfriend for 3 months now play online games while im with him on his apartment. We also not kind of constantly texting, last 2 days we talked and it's me who give the last message. (No answer)
I can say i gave too much in relationship.
:'(  thinking of breaking up with him.  :(

Answer

He honestly seems a little uninterested.. from my experience, guys that do that are getting bored and investing time else where. If they really loved me or really liked me they would talk to me all day long every day. Whether it's texting or calling. I know people get busy but if you're scared to text him because he may be busy or annoyed, that shows me, you're not a priority. Just my opinion

Is it just me? Annoying boyfriend?

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