First pelvic exam

Jamie • 23 years old. In a super loving relationship. Artist and excellent hugger.
So yesterday I had an ovarian cyst rupture while I was at work and I had to be rushed to the hospital. The pain was so horrible and I was all alone. I had never had anything like this happen. I had to have my first pelvic exam and it's was so horrible. I was in so much pain and the two women who did it were sort of mean and had little to no sympathy for me. It was painful and they kept asking if it hurt when it very obviously did. 
It was just so traumatic because I was all alone. Has anyone else had an experience like this?