not relating to bf

Hi! We are both in college and been dating 3 years. We go to different schools and i spend my weekend working and he parties. I am not into the whole drinking thing but havent let what he does bother me until now. Im starting to feel we dont relate and dont understand his compulsiveness to always be at the party from thursday to saturday. What do i do? I love him but is this a college phase or more??? I love going out to eat or shopping to be social but dont find the party scene to be me.