Plus size Mommy's advice

Tanya
I'm 14 weeks today. Pre-pregnancy I weighed 253lbs currently at 240lbs today. My pants feel much too tight and I have already bought some maternity clothes. But I still don't see any difference in my stomach. I fell like it's all just fat not any baby bump yet. If there are any plus size woman on here please, when did you actually start to show? I'm tired of people telling me 'are you fat or are you pregnant' or 'where is this baby you are carrying, all I see is fat'