Do you think cheaters change?

Question

Once a cheater always a cheater I'm done giving chances and having them turn into a smack in the face.

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Honey... I just got out of a relationship. My love had an affair the first four months of our relationship. I found out a good bit after, but decided to stick through it because I loved him. He promised me never again. Then, in April, I found out he was trying to trade nudes with people on Tumblr! I was livid, and I felt betrayed, but again, I stayed, on the condition that he delete his Tumblr. He did... And then reinstalled it three weeks later. He never truly care about me, my feelings, or thoughts, only himself... And he ended up leaving me, last Tuesday, and I have been mentally just broken ever since. It isn't worth it. Don't be like me, and go find someone who's actually worth your love.

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I don't believe in second chances. You break my trust and that's it. 
Giving someone a second chance is like handing them a second bullet and asking them to shoot you again. 
If they hurt you once it's their fault but if they hurt you a second time it's your fault for trusting them knowing what they did. I don't care if you were drunk. You let loose when your drunk and act more like yourself so if you cheat on me drunk it makes it worse.

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In my experience Yes. My man was a whore and when I say whore I mean banging 2 chicks a day everyday whore. I come along and slowly but surely he got rid of the bitches now he can't live without me or my coochie. And best believe I would know if he had anything going on with anybody. 👌🏼👌🏼

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I think someone who has cheated in the past, doesn't necessarily mean they will cheat when they are with you - depending. It depends on their age/ where they were in life etc. If it's someone who gets their jollies from secrets and lying which a lot of cheaters get off on - then no, there will be no changing that. If someone has cheated on you once, chances are they will do it again. I speak from experience here, I used to cheat out of boredom, because I was young and naive, because it was exciting, and also because I just wasn't ready to commit. Around 21 I made a commitment to myself to not enter any relationship unless I was going to be an adult about it, and I met my now husband. We've been together for 6 years, I'd never cheat on him, I love him to pieces and respect him. For me, age and maturity was a factor.

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They can but I find it very very rare. My dad cheated on my mom once with one woman and she found out and he cried (only time anyone has ever seen him cry) and never did it again. That was 15 years ago.

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