FTM nightmares about labor

So I'm a FTM due in March. I am terrified of labor, not because of the pain or needles or anything like that. I'm terrified something is going to happen to me (this sounds selfish but In no way do I mean it that way). Almost a year ago a girl from my hometown died from her uterus rupturing unexpectedly. Obviously it terrified me then and a lot of other expecting mothers( I wasn't expecting at this time) And another thing the week after I found out I was expecting before I had even told anyone I had a customer come Into my work and randomly telling me about her niece  just died the night before giving birth and she was going to see the baby . I have nightmares every other night of something happening to me during birth or if my family just sitting around dinners or anything with the baby and me not there. I haven't said anything to anyone I know because I know they're going to tell me I'm just being over dramatic. I'm just wondering if I'm the only one who wore us about this stuff like this? I'm stressing myself out WAYY to bad over this. Anyone have advice??