I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful, sacrifical, amazing man in a different country. He recently re-acclaimed his faith. He was sexually abused as a child and  had a traumatic experience with the divorce of his parents. Im not sure if Im being too hard on him, because he is really beginning his process of faith for the first time and I seem to criticize everything he does and say "well, I dont think you are very strong in your faith" even though he really started to dig deep into his Bible and go to church and accept Christ only a few months ago. I am an over thinker as well, I ponder everything in a negative way ALL the time. Should I stop overthinking and just give him time to process and grow in his faith?