Ok, so I'm al honesty how does one pay for a wedding. I'm by no means poor or super wealthy but when I checked into a wedding venue online that I would someday like to get married in (engagement anyday HOPEFULLY!). The cost is $9,000. Like where do I just pull $9,000 out of ? Do you save up for a couple years, take a loan out?? What?! Seriously I don't have anyone close or friends that are married yet so I can't really ask them..