I will not say sorry for showing my shoulders or wearing thigh high boots. I am not going to say sorry for enjoying sex from my partner, yes I am 100% a freak around the man I love. Yes I enjoy deepthroating him and riding him, no this doesn't make me a slut or nasty. I am not going to say sorry for speaking my mind, I will always be considerate and respectful before speaking. I am going to take my strip classes, do my tantric yoga amd wear a choker at my wedding. No I am not sorry. I am going to party and drink amd have fun. No I am not sorry. Yes I am not sorry for being kind to a rude person. Just because they are mean doesn't entitle me to act such a way. if you judge me on very small knowledge and I call you I'll-bred, I won't apologize  because it's ill bred of you. You don't know my damn life. But you should know there is a way to give adivce without insulting. And I am definitely not sorry for falling in love with someone who's slightly older than me, we are both legal. (18&27) 

I am tired of being sorry for being me. 

Since the age of 12 I started getting slut shamed amd I'm not the only one. All my life I've been sorry, I've been oppressing myself because of such comments. But today and until forevermore I will no longer be sorry for being me. I will wear as I please, unless I go to such place where dress codes are needed, I will talk as I please, I will carry myself as I please, I will fuck as I please, I will party as I please.  I will do me as I please. I am going to live my life as I please.  Because you cannot shame me, I only can shame me. I am taking the power away from you, you can not hurt me ever again. You can't make me feel bad about my skin. I love me, I accept me and I'm going to be me. I'm going to shine and laugh at such foolishness 

All I'm trying to say is ladies always be you and be you unapologetically. Wear that dress to homecoming. The only thing matters is that you love it.