fucking seriously?

Tiffani
So tonight my fiancé said something to me that really pissed me off. We were getting in bed and having a random conversation and somehow the topic of taking care of our daughter came up and I said since you have the next three days off it would be nice if one night you could wake up when our daughter wakes up and feed her so I can sleep through a night. (She's almost 3 months and he hasn't woken up once at night to deal with her, it's always been me) and he said yeah okay but not tonight, since we have been drinking a bit I said okay - he drank more than me. And then he kept talking about it so I said yeah but it's a team effort.. and he says, you're starting to sound like my ex wife. 
I was just stunned.. so offensive. They got divorced for a reason and I couldn't believe he said that to me. 
And then he said that in his mind the first 6 months should be entirely the moms job because it strengthens the bond between us or something idk.. 
Honeslty in my mind we should be working together from the beginning which hasn't happened at all.. I'm the only one that's been doing things for her and it's so irritating. 
I really just had to vent.. any other ladies have to deal with this?