don't tuck me !! with out asking !!

I was having no problem when I was living in Lake Tahoe no one touched me it was grate. People would come up to me and asked me what sex the baby was. But never try to touch my stomach. Now that we've moved to Portland tell are baby is Born and we get some help from my parents. It's been way way different. People don't ask me her to Touch my stomach they just automatically touch. Especially my fiancé's family! It drive me crazy cuz my family is not like this. His mom is the really bad one. She invite other people to touch me and finely getting to the point where I'm just saying no thank you! It's A complete invasion of my personal space. It's driving me crazy and the comments. Like " you are getting so big !" Say what !! 😦 just driving me crazy